I need a virtual co-pilot very badly. When departing from some of these larger airports I get two to three altitude and heading changes per minute  and that along with controlling the airplane and talking with several controllers over-taxes my ability. It just ain't no fun when this happens.

My current answer is "cancel IFR", but it isn't legal to fly a 727 VFR, so what to do ?

Is this just the only answer to this problem ?

What are your traffic settings?
60% will do nicely even for busy airports.