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May 8th, 2012 at 9:02pm

Flying Trucker   Offline
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HEY...WHAT DO I KNOW

Good evening everyone...

Every once in awhile I try to type something out that might benefit at least one person here on our forums and then I know my effort was not wasted.

Passing seven decades now with three nearly full logbooks, an ATR and more paid flying hours than I probably deserved the old girl and I sometimes sit at the piano or organ and pound out a few old tunes while always, always coming back to this question.

What are we going to leave our grandchildren and great grandchildren?

The old girl is a very good aviatress in her own right, Commercial License and Instrument Rating.

Our own children have just about everything they could want and  we have to say they got it with a little help from us.

No I am not talking money but family values.  Little things like:
-helping with the meals and dishes and outdoor chores
-helping with homework when all seems lost by the younger member
-being honest with the old girl, me and their brothers and sisters
-giving a little of one's self...like helping a friend or family member in sports, school...etc.

Our children are doing their own thing, flying/flew military, bush, commercial and now Air Force Reserve. (Rotary and Fixed Wing)

They have values they have set for our grandchildren which seem to have been learned during their years living at home.

But what about our grandchildren, heck, what about some of you I would like to leave some food for thought with.

We do not have a Current License as we did not renew our medical this year.
The last couple of years we have been aviating with a current pilot either family or friend...that rules out taking them up in a two seat bugs masher but does not rule out a four seater.

That leaves some of you folks out as well... Grin

I can't put them on my knee and tell them a tall flying tale...they are getting way to big.
The other weekend my one grandson not even twelve years old yet shook my hand when leaving instead of the usual hug...boy did that hurt this old retired rocking chair flying geezer.

Well that leaves you folks out also... Shocked

So all I got is the little knowledge I have about life, marriage, family and flying that I can pass on to them and perhaps you.
Well something like this:

FLYING
-stay in school and get the most education you can
-do not be afraid of looking at the options the Military Offers
-ask questions and get the answers you expect
-be honest with yourself....most important....if the first or second flying lessons make you uncomfortable with several different instructors then find another career or hobby.  Perhaps like FSX and Simviation.
-do not second guess yourself...you were probably right the first time
-keep your friends close...but...your enemies closer...you will be surprised where help comes from sometimes
-involve your family in all that you do, work and play
  there is nothing worse than a parent burying a child they never got to know
-smile...it takes less facial muscles to smile than it does to frown
-know your own limitations...very important...if it does not look or feel right to go flying then don't OR better still grab a current Flight Instructor and then go up...see for yourself but tell him/her what decision you had made and why you want him/her to go with you... Wink

Just something I wanted to type out, nothing serious, but I see many of you going for your Aviators License.  Asking questions and applying to different colleges and universities which is wonderful.

Wishing you all the best of luck and if anyone tells you there is no hope for this younger generation you just refer them to me.
I know a Marine here who has lots of friends.... Grin







 

Cheers...Happy Landings...Doug
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Reply #1 - May 8th, 2012 at 10:13pm

machineman9   Offline
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Flying Trucker wrote on May 8th, 2012 at 9:02pm:
FLYING
-stay in school and get the most education you can
-do not be afraid of looking at the options the Military Offers
-ask questions and get the answers you expect
-be honest with yourself....most important....if the first or second flying lessons make you uncomfortable with several different instructors then find another career or hobby.  Perhaps like FSX and Simviation.
-do not second guess yourself...you were probably right the first time
-keep your friends close...but...your enemies closer...you will be surprised where help comes from sometimes
-involve your family in all that you do, work and play
  there is nothing worse than a parent burying a child they never got to know
-smile...it takes less facial muscles to smile than it does to frown
-know your own limitations...very important...if it does not look or feel right to go flying then don't OR better still grab a current Flight Instructor and then go up...see for yourself but tell him/her what decision you had made and why you want him/her to go with you... Wink

Some of this is incredibly relevant, and it's the advice I was given... Else I'd be flying by now.

I have a small grant from my grandparents to put towards academic/career skills. So that could be university or flying in my case. I could've paid towards a PPL with the money, but instead I chose to do a further year of college and attempt university. The flying school suggested that I work towards a career away from aviation first... Medical situations can put you out of a flying career a lot faster than they can put you out of most other jobs. So flying should be for fun (or until you've got a fallback position).

Likewise, the military option is still highest on my list of priorities. If I get to university, I'll hopefully be flying with the RAF as a university cadet officer by December! It doesn't guarantee a job at the end, but it certainly doesn't hurt my chances!


Good advice though. I'll get back to you on the rest when I make some enemies and reach my limits!  Grin
 

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Reply #2 - May 9th, 2012 at 2:33pm

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Thanks for the reply machineman9... Wink
 

Cheers...Happy Landings...Doug
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Reply #3 - May 9th, 2012 at 8:23pm

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Sometimes I also look at my two sons (kids... one of them is taller then me...) and ask myself: "where are my two little kids who used to climb to my knees"? And of course, I worry every minute of my life if  I did/am doing enough, teaching them enough about life, giving them the right set of values etc. Well Sir, I think that in the end all comes to hope and faith. Hope that we teached them good enough to go trough life like good and decent men, and faith on their one capabilities to do just so. As you refer to your grandchildren, I know that you went trough the same process with your children... It all comes to basics: if our children are raised as good and decent humen beings, they will surely do the same for their children (at least we hope so... Smiley
They will all fly alone eventually, is it not? Best thing we can hope is that we are "still at the airport" to see them take off Smiley
Best regards Sir, and Good Bless.
 

Superconstellations Are hot, or what? Smiley
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Reply #4 - May 10th, 2012 at 12:28pm

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Everything said here is very well put.  I will take a moment here to let everyone know that the most rewarding thing I've EVER done is being a Dad! Smiley
 
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Reply #5 - May 11th, 2012 at 7:49pm

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Thanks multiprops for the reply... Wink

Thanks Bud for your reply also... Wink
 

Cheers...Happy Landings...Doug
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