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Question: My first poll. Dilemma!
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Get the ring and life will be good?    
  10 (52.6%)
Get the new PC and simming will be good?    
  4 (21.1%)
Get her a cheap knock off, and lie?    
  5 (26.3%)




Total votes: 19
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Dilemma/ Two loves tearing me apart (Read 1211 times)
Aug 21st, 2011 at 2:17pm

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I wanted to get a nice new sim PC and the girlfriend has lost the diamond out of her engagement ring and wants me to buy her a new ring. EVERY time I mention new PC the ring thing pops up. This might be a 'Dear Abby' moment! What would you do is the question here.  Smiley
 

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Reply #1 - Aug 21st, 2011 at 2:19pm

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Find a new girlfriend... Grin
 


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Reply #2 - Aug 21st, 2011 at 2:24pm

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skoker wrote on Aug 21st, 2011 at 2:19pm:
Find a new girlfriend... Grin


Hmmm. Best advice so far!  Grin
 

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Reply #3 - Aug 21st, 2011 at 3:58pm

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Did she crash the new Bmw, drop the Macbook, Break the vase and crack the '40' hd tv? Angry. Mark we need you here Undecided Grin.
I guess you should:
On your next date, publicly dedicate this song to her  Grin
Buy her a new diamond ring and  use super-glue to stick it onto her finger Tongue
Find a new girlfriend
Or you could go into your nearest volcano and get her some raw diamond. Like sushi Shocked
 

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Reply #4 - Aug 21st, 2011 at 4:59pm

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hyperpep111 wrote on Aug 21st, 2011 at 3:58pm:
Did she crash the new Bmw, drop the Macbook, Break the vase and crack the '40' hd tv? Angry. Mark we need you here Undecided Grin.
I guess you should:
On your next date, publicly dedicate this song to her  Grin
Buy her a new diamond ring and  use super-glue to stick it onto her finger Tongue
Find a new girlfriend
Or you could go into your nearest volcano and get her some raw diamond. Like sushi Shocked



Grin Hang on a sec. I just got an Email from Somalia.. Cool
 

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Reply #5 - Aug 21st, 2011 at 5:23pm

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I am a little confused here.  If you bought her the ring she is your fiance, not just your girlfriend.  My point being, if you really plan to spend the rest of your life with her you better get that ring replaced or you will never hear the end of it!  Get the pc on a later date and you won't regret it.
 
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Reply #6 - Aug 21st, 2011 at 5:40pm

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Based on my history with women, I voted to get the pc. Roll Eyes
 

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Reply #7 - Aug 21st, 2011 at 5:47pm

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If you had to ask that question, you probably need to reconsider the engagement.

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Reply #8 - Aug 21st, 2011 at 6:35pm

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Based on my experience with marriage, I said get the new PC.  You will be happier.  You already invested in her, and she lost it.  Time to take care of number 1  Wink





(in all honesty though, follow your heart man, if you think she rates another big diamond investment, then go for it, marriage is forever.  But for your sake, insure it this time!!)
 

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Reply #9 - Aug 21st, 2011 at 6:55pm

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One word...........pawnbroker, but what ever you do make sure that it is not already engraved Grin

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Reply #10 - Aug 21st, 2011 at 7:14pm

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Two words, IN-SURANCE.  Ok that is one word, but you get my point.  I just recently got engaged, and was able to insure her ring for just $50 a year through my insurance company. 

Depending on where you bought it from, you may have something known as a diamond bond, which means the jeweler may replace the diamond at no cost to you.
 
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Reply #11 - Aug 21st, 2011 at 9:22pm

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BigTruck wrote on Aug 21st, 2011 at 6:35pm:
Based on my experience with marriage, I said get the new PC.  You will be happier.  You already invested in her, and she lost it.  Time to take care of number 1  Wink





(in all honesty though, follow your heart man, if you think she rates another big diamond investment, then go for it, marriage is forever.  But for your sake, insure it this time!!)


One more thing...don't ever lie.   Wink  Relationship killer.  Should not even be an option in your poll.  Do not lie to her.
 

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Reply #12 - Aug 22nd, 2011 at 1:41am

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Steve M wrote on Aug 21st, 2011 at 4:59pm:
hyperpep111 wrote on Aug 21st, 2011 at 3:58pm:
Did she crash the new Bmw, drop the Macbook, Break the vase and crack the '40' hd tv? Angry. Mark we need you here Undecided Grin.
I guess you should:
On your next date, publicly dedicate this song to her  Grin
Buy her a new diamond ring and  use super-glue to stick it onto her finger Tongue
Find a new girlfriend
Or you could go into your nearest volcano and get her some raw diamond. Like sushi Shocked



Grin Hang on a sec. I just got an Email from Somalia.. Cool


I do not understand.
 

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Reply #13 - Aug 22nd, 2011 at 1:50am

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I would advise you to get a new ring insured to a few thousand $$$$$. So if she loses it you will get richer. Tongue
 

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Arguing with a pilot is like wrestling with a pig in the mud, after a while you begin to think the pig likes it.
                                    
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Reply #14 - Aug 22nd, 2011 at 1:58am

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hyperpep111 wrote on Aug 21st, 2011 at 3:58pm:
Or you could go into your nearest volcano and get her some raw diamond. Like sushi Shocked
Well, it quickly sounded fishy as soon as I read as far as volcano -- I thought you were about to suggest he throw her in as a sacrifice.


BigTruck wrote on Aug 21st, 2011 at 9:22pm:
DaveSims wrote on Aug 21st, 2011 at 7:14pm:
Depending on where you bought it from, you may have something known as a diamond bond, which means the jeweler may replace the diamond at no cost to you.
...if you think she rates another big diamond investment, then go for it, marriage is forever.  But for your sake, insure it this time!!
Once upon a time it was cheaper to purchase the gem and have it set -- but, like I said, that was long ago (and probably in galaxy far, far away). A couple decades past, when I had a little money to my name, I invested in a gem collection, one or so at a time. Mind you, these were not real expensive, small emeralds, citrines, opals, sapphires (never purchased the DeBeers diamond I was offered)... however, together, they added up to a noticeable sum; they were stolen along with my Camaro (which I retrieved from Massachusetts, ransacked and worse for wear), and video equipment. My dad never insured anything, my mom only got life and health insurance; I'm the only one in the family to have added on auto insurance. I also employed a plan that added my mom's car onto the policy for that Camaro. Not going into further detail, my mom got the insurance cancelled on both cars "because it [wasn't] necessary."  Neither Camaro nor gems were insured. Steve, if you got something of value and you can afford to insure it (yeah, I know, some might say if you can't afford to insure it, don't have it)...


JBaymore wrote on Aug 21st, 2011 at 5:47pm:
BigTruck wrote on Aug 21st, 2011 at 9:22pm:
One more thing...don't ever lie.   Wink  Relationship killer.  Should not even be an option in your poll.  Do not lie to her.

If you had to ask that question, you probably need to reconsider the engagement.



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Reply #15 - Aug 22nd, 2011 at 2:34am

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H wrote on Aug 22nd, 2011 at 1:58am:
hyperpep111 wrote on Aug 21st, 2011 at 3:58pm:
Or you could go into your nearest volcano and get her some raw diamond. Like sushi Shocked
Well, it quickly sounded fishy as soon as I read as far as volcano -- I thought you were about to suggest he throw her in as a sacrifice.




Cool


You could do that. Kiss (This smiley is somewhat appropriate for the moment  Grin
 

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Reply #16 - Aug 22nd, 2011 at 2:38am

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Hmmm. A better gaming experience or breaking a girls heart. Difficult decision. Undecided Roll Eyes
 

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Reply #17 - Aug 22nd, 2011 at 3:05am

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So I better get her the ring, insure it at twice its value, have it stolen, collect the money and buy a new ring and PC. Oh, and then confess the whole scam to her so I wouldn't be lieing. Grin I knew I could depend on you all for some great advice!  Grin  Grin


(Honestly though, she's getting a ring. Wink )   
 

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Reply #18 - Aug 22nd, 2011 at 7:52am

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Don't make a stink about it to her.  Not now, not ever.  Get the ring.  Forget about what happened (just be sure it doesn't happen again).  Never, never, lie.  Certainly not to a fiance or girlfriend.  It'll come back at ya someday.

You might consider going back to where you bought it and complain.  Sounds like it was defective. 
 
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Reply #19 - Aug 22nd, 2011 at 9:51am

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Personally, I can never understand the fuss about a big clonker of an engagement ring and think that they are a complete waste of money. I never bought my wife one, instead spent the cash on a custom made wedding ring. October is our 20th anniversary.............

Rings, like Valentine's day are a rather modern bit of Western culture. Before the 20th century, other types of betrothal gifts were common. (Wiki).....Before the end of the 19th century, the bride-to-be frequently received a sewing thimble rather than an engagement ring. This practice was particularly common among religious groups that shunned jewellery. Engagement rings didn't become standard in the West until the end of the 19th century, and diamond rings didn't become common until the 1930s. Now, 80% of American women are offered a diamond ring to signify engagement.

Go with the thimble, I am intrigued to know what happens Grin

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Reply #20 - Aug 22nd, 2011 at 11:21am

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expat wrote on Aug 22nd, 2011 at 9:51am:
Personally, I can never understand the fuss about a big clonker of an engagement ring and think that they are a complete waste of money. I never bought my wife one, instead spent the cash on a custom made wedding ring. October is our 20th anniversary.............

Rings, like Valentine's day are a rather modern bit of Western culture. Before the 20th century, other types of betrothal gifts were common. (Wiki).....Before the end of the 19th century, the bride-to-be frequently received a sewing thimble rather than an engagement ring. This practice was particularly common among religious groups that shunned jewellery. Engagement rings didn't become standard in the West until the end of the 19th century, and diamond rings didn't become common until the 1930s. Now, 80% of American women are offered a diamond ring to signify engagement.

Go with the thimble, I am intrigued to know what happens Grin

Matt



Grin I'll pass on the thimble idea, I'd end up at the proctologist to get it removed.  Shocked
I really never could understand why the engagement ring is such a big deal. I never wear any rings myself.
 

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Reply #21 - Aug 22nd, 2011 at 11:28am

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Apex wrote on Aug 22nd, 2011 at 7:52am:
Don't make a stink about it to her.  Not now, not ever.  Get the ring.  Forget about what happened (just be sure it doesn't happen again).  Never, never, lie.  Certainly not to a fiance or girlfriend.  It'll come back at ya someday.

You might consider going back to where you bought it and complain.  Sounds like it was defective. 



Your right on all points Apex. I've had too much experience in these areas.  Tongue  I can't return the ring as the store closed up last year.
 

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Reply #22 - Aug 22nd, 2011 at 2:17pm

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One word: Harribo

Just remember to duck when she swings  Wink Grin
 

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Reply #23 - Aug 22nd, 2011 at 2:46pm

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machineman9 wrote on Aug 22nd, 2011 at 2:17pm:
One word: Harribo

Just remember to duck when she swings  Wink Grin



Grin Naw! I'd get thimbled for sure! Roll Eyes Grin
 

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Reply #24 - Aug 22nd, 2011 at 2:52pm

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I'd cut off her ring finger and point out that a) she won't lose the bits again as she can't wear a ring and b) she won't p*ss you off with her half-wittedness!
Use the Hungarian method, my wife and I have matching wedding rings (red, white and 18ct gold). In Hungary you wear the ring on your left hand whilst engaged and on the right once married. No change of rings Wink
 

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Reply #25 - Aug 22nd, 2011 at 3:05pm

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machineman9 wrote on Aug 22nd, 2011 at 2:17pm:
One word: Harribo

Just remember to duck when she swings  Wink Grin


Isn't it Haribo? I have no idea what that's got to do with this but it made me breath hard to avoid splattering my expensive drink all over the screen Grin Grin
 

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ozzy72 wrote on Aug 22nd, 2011 at 2:52pm:
I'd cut off her ring finger and point out that a) she won't lose the bits again as she can't wear a ring and b) she won't p*ss you off with her half-wittedness!
Use the Hungarian method, my wife and I have matching wedding rings (red, white and 18ct gold). In Hungary you wear the ring on your left hand whilst engaged and on the right once married. No change of rings Wink


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Wink Cheesy
 

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Reply #27 - Aug 22nd, 2011 at 3:22pm

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Steve M wrote on Aug 22nd, 2011 at 2:46pm:
machineman9 wrote on Aug 22nd, 2011 at 2:17pm:
One word: Harribo

Just remember to duck when she swings  Wink Grin



Grin Naw! I'd get thimbled for sure! Roll Eyes Grin


Where do you get all this 'creative English' Sad
 

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Reply #28 - Aug 22nd, 2011 at 3:31pm

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ozzy72 wrote on Aug 22nd, 2011 at 2:52pm:
I'd cut off her ring finger and point out that a) she won't lose the bits again as she can't wear a ring and b) she won't p*ss you off with her half-wittedness!
Use the Hungarian method, my wife and I have matching wedding rings (red, white and 18ct gold). In Hungary you wear the ring on your left hand whilst engaged and on the right once married. No change of rings Wink



Shocked Grin She'd still have seven fingers left. Plenty enough to adorn! I like the more economical Hungarian tradition though. Apparently the western nations have adopted this two ring circus during courting because one man, hundreds of years ago gave a promise ring to his Bo. I can picture the maids gathering and tittering over the first ring. And the rest is history... Cool
 

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Reply #29 - Aug 22nd, 2011 at 3:40pm

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hyperpep111 wrote on Aug 22nd, 2011 at 3:22pm:
Steve M wrote on Aug 22nd, 2011 at 2:46pm:
machineman9 wrote on Aug 22nd, 2011 at 2:17pm:
One word: Harribo

Just remember to duck when she swings  Wink Grin



Grin Naw! I'd get thimbled for sure! Roll Eyes Grin


Where do you get all this 'creative English' Sad 




It just comes with practice. Cheesy Spelling is the hard part.  Tongue Grin
 

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Reply #30 - Aug 22nd, 2011 at 5:47pm

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expat wrote on Aug 22nd, 2011 at 9:51am:
Personally, I can never understand the fuss about a big clonker of an engagement ring and think that they are a complete waste of money. I never bought my wife one, instead spent the cash on a custom made wedding ring. October is our 20th anniversary.............

Rings, like Valentine's day are a rather modern bit of Western culture. Before the 20th century, other types of betrothal gifts were common. (Wiki).....Before the end of the 19th century, the bride-to-be frequently received a sewing thimble rather than an engagement ring. This practice was particularly common among religious groups that shunned jewellery. Engagement rings didn't become standard in the West until the end of the 19th century, and diamond rings didn't become common until the 1930s. Now, 80% of American women are offered a diamond ring to signify engagement.

Go with the thimble, I am intrigued to know what happens Grin

Matt

I think the thimble would go over about as well as a vaccuum cleaner, even a pricey one.  Grin

The whole diamond ring thing is silly- and they are way overpriced, even mediocre cuts.  Diamonds are actually  not very rare, just very durable (except the settings, LOL). Very large ones or colored ones are truly rare, but chicks dig the white ones, and only the very wealthy can afford the huge ones.
You can thank DeBeers for the tradition of diamond jewelry as proof of love (or whatever)... they were doing OK selling diamonds for industry, but convincing people that only a diamond ring was good enough made them what they are today.
 

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Steve M wrote on Aug 22nd, 2011 at 3:05am:
So I better get her the ring, insure it at twice its value, have it stolen, collect the money and buy a new ring and PC. Oh, and then confess the whole scam to her so I wouldn't be lieing. Grin I knew I could depend on you all for some great advice!  Grin  Grin


(Honestly though, she's getting a ring. Wink )   


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