Dan,
While there are a lot of VB development forums there is next to no info on flight simulator programming in VB. Certainly not enough, as Pete said, to justify a separate forum here.
However, as a software developer I'd be happy to contribute to a discussion on the subject if you had specific issues you wanted to talk about, say, in the Computer Games and Software forum. I don't usually spend much time there but I will start watching for your posts if you're interested.
If you want to see what others have done, I'd suggest learning to read C and then start looking for sample code. One bright spot is
www.flightgear.org. It's home of an open source flight simulator that is fairly advanced. I should warn you though that it is "industrial strength" C and will take some digging to understand. I have also seen occassional stuff written in Java and C# but you have to dig for it.
gw