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Question: Are we smart enough to discuss issues intelligently?
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« Created by: Scottler on: Sep 19th, 2003 at 10:12am »

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Reply #15 - Sep 19th, 2003 at 11:24am

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1.  Sorry for the confusion, Hagar.  I didn't mean you specifically.


2.  Pippin, how is it an inflammatory thread?  How is it stirring up trouble?  It's just another example of people discussing something intelligently, and no flaming has occured, you'll notice, yet for some reason, it fears getting locked, because a moderator has put their foot down.

This is my precise point, and exactly why I started the thread.

We can't discuss something intelligently, even if no flaming is going on, without the moderators closing the door.
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Reply #16 - Sep 19th, 2003 at 11:29am

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Ozzy you rock, as always.

I'm going to spend the rest of the day trying to decide whether or not I want to sacrifice the friendships (albeit virtual) I've made with so many of you in the past few months for the sake of being allowed to be my opinionated self.

 

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Reply #17 - Sep 19th, 2003 at 11:30am

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We can't discuss something intelligently, even if no flaming is going on, without the moderators closing the door.

Hyp, you obiviously are very pasionate about your beliefs, and you know...thats great! Many people are just too agreable for fear of being branded as different.

However, if these forums do not fulfill your needs, then maybe it is necessary to seek out a forum like the one Ozzy suggested to fill that need.

That way, you can still come to this forum and share your questions and thoughts about FS and things that are allowed!  Smiley
 

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Reply #18 - Sep 19th, 2003 at 11:43am

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1.  Sorry for the confusion, Hagar.  I didn't mean you specifically.

No problem. As that long as that is quite clear. I have few enough friends already. Wink

I think you did make your point. I've seen nothing inflammatory in this thread. We've all put our points politely & intelligently. To be fair to Pippin, the mods have a difficult job here which they do particularly well. It would not suit me as I have strong views & would most likely be deleting/locking topics I don't personally agree with wholesale. Grin
 

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Reply #19 - Sep 19th, 2003 at 12:39pm
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You don't like Americans? Awesome!  I don't like some of them either.  I don't like some people from many ethnic backgrounds.  That's what makes me unique.


Well Hyp, it depends on how it is couched. What does the fact that the aforementioned people are Americans have to do with whether you like them or not? There are people that I do not like, where they are from is moot.

Let me rearrange your quote, just one word change and see if the meaning changes radically.

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You don't like Blacks? Awesome!  I don't like some of them either.  I don't like some people from many ethnic backgrounds.  That's what makes me unique.


Is that acceptable? No, it is not. You would rather judge a Black on his merits rather than his color, would you not?

Now, if you do not like Americans just because they are Americans. That is fine too. And if it was true I would not be offended. (Mostly cause I live in Texas and it is advertised as a "whole 'nother country") Seriously, If you disliked "Americans" I wouldn't want to be friends with you, plain and simple. So if you are posting things negative about "Americans" or America, it makes me feel unwelcome. Nor would I want to hang in a forum that had a lot of anti-American sentiment. Same with the French or anyone else.

My point is, that with the freedom of speech comes the responsibility to know when not to use it. Thoughtfullness, consideration of others feelings.

In public I am not so concerned, but here in this community, I am concerned about hurting someone's feelings, you all are my friends. So that invokes the responsibility.

That is what it all boils down to. Do you care whether or not your readership is hurt or offended.

One last point. Anytime you have a political discussion, there is invariably someone who has a joke, comment or cartoon about the subject that is funny as hell but is going to offend someone and they override common sense and post it anyway. Always, without fail. Then are baffled as to why they are flamed.

Regarding going to other forums. I Hang quite a bit at the Outhouse as well. There are some Internationals, but it is mostly one hundert purcent true blue Mericanism there. I feel at home.

But I hang more here. I have made friends here. In general I feel welcome here because I do not have to hear all the time what a jerk I am because I am American.

We hear it everywhere - in our own media, in our own schools, on the job, in the papers, from our own government - so why would we go somehwere that has it when we are relaxing?

Any time you want to ask me about why Americans do this or that, fine, I would be happy to discuss it with you.
But, when someone posts that Americans are dicked up because they did this or that, I do not want to hear it. That is not what I come HERE for. And if you make a post asking me something like that we will have a nice conversation, for about 2 or 3 post before some idget has to make what they think is a funny, then the fur flies.

As said before, this is an International forum where all feel welcome. Why? Because the Mods do there job well. If not, this would the Nationalistic forums rather than International. Because Americans would be excluded. Is that what you want?

This whole post was said with a smile.
 
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Reply #20 - Sep 19th, 2003 at 12:53pm

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Okay, two points.

Let there be no confusion about a few things. 

1.  I DID NOT MAKE THE COMMENT ABOUT BLACKS.  lol  (I know there will be a few people who think I did, because it says so in quotes.)  If you go back to page one, you'll see my precise quote.


2.  I am also an American.  I'm a native New Yorker, and I'm a former United States Marine.  If anyone loves this country more than me, let them introduce themselves to me, because I'm curious who they are.

Now, with that said, let me go on.

There are some black people that I do not like.  There are some Indian people that I do not like.  This is precisely what I said.  It's when you presume that I'm making a blanket statement that it gets ugly.

We've become such a politically correct world that we can't even say the word "black" without ourselves being black, and it is disgusting.

Yes, there are some people out there who hate everyone.  I feel sorry for them, because they're closing themselves off to so much.

Next, I feel like people in this thread have misunderstood what I'm talking about when I say "issues".

I'm not talking about having a pro-life vs. pro-choice debate.  Not at all.  Whoever mentioned that there are children here is correct when they said so.

What I'm talking about is the tight grip that some of the moderators have.

Case in point.  I made a joke about the hurricane and the fact that soon democrats will blame it on President Bush.  (This happened, incidentally.  lol)

That was it.  Moderators were on this like stink on a monkey.  Don't you think that's taking the no politics rule a little too far?

Another thread was started by a highly respected member (if nothing else but in my own eyes) regarding the death penalty.  (This thread was started after discussion on something horrible which he'd been witness to was being discussed.)

Again, moderators jumped all over both topics, threatening to lock it.

I understand that this is a private website, and that Pete can make whatever rules he chooses, and I completely respect that.

But what I do not support is when moderators get carried away with enforcing the rules to the point of you having to re-read your posts to make sure they're not going to lock it, all before you press the "Post" button.

We ALL have to use a little bit of common sense, and not let idiots ruin things for all of us.  That means that we as members have the responsibility to watch what we say, but the moderators should have the responsibility to use some good judgement.  Pete obviously believes they've got it.
 

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Reply #21 - Sep 19th, 2003 at 1:18pm
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[quoteLet me rearrange your quote,] [/quote]

He did not make the comment with the term Black. I did to make a point. So,....oops - sorry Hyp.

My whole tirade was more for general readership to understand why I am not tolerant of anti-American statements. Right after I first got here there was a lot of it. It was during the start of the war. I was defending my country. Most of the coments and jokes were coming from a Frenchman. You can ask Ozzy, I restrained myself from retaliation. Too bad too, I had a ton of good French Jokes. But I felt this was neither the time nor the place. Since then I have made friends and decided to stay.

But friends or no, I still would not tolerate it. And the mods do a good job.

I do not come here for political debate, there are forums that specialize in that. When I have a party in my home there are two subjects that are taboo, politics and religion, either will start a cat fight in a heartbeat. So I feel no different when congregating with friends here.
 
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Reply #22 - Sep 19th, 2003 at 1:29pm

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While going through my inflight training with CAL, I had a very dear friend in my training class.  (She was very cute, but that's beside the point.)

We stayed up until 4 am discussing the differences between the Mormon religion and more "common" demoninations.

Were it not for this very in depth discussion, I never would have understood her religion at all.  Now I understand it significantly more, and I'm not at all a religious guy.  I'm a guy who likes to learn about what matters to his friends.

With that said, Oso, this part is for you.  You, and many like you, do not come here solely for intelligent conversation about matters that are important.  I understand that, abd believe it or not, I respect that.

There have been two points I've been trying to get across throughout this thread, and I'm becoming redundant, but I'll say them again anyway.

1.  Though the moderators do an amazing job given the difficulty of their charge, shouldn't they be asked to use a little common sense sometimes?

2.  If you don't want to hear about it, don't read the threads about those topics!

As for parents not wanting their children to read certain things, let the parents make that assessment, and (non-denominational deity forbid) ask them to raise their children themselves!


PS...I also find it ironic that the LEGITIMATE discussion of these topics are taboo, yet the humorous reference to them is fine.

I submit to you http://www.simviation.com/cgi-bin/yabb/YaBB.cgi?board=joke;action=display;num=10...
 

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Reply #23 - Sep 19th, 2003 at 1:51pm

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Scott, we were NOT having a go. We mods have to keep an eye on things, and politics like religion is a v.passionate area for many people. That is why I suggested that other forum, they want to discuss these things. Brave. I go mental talking politics and it normally ends up with me proposing to shoot various MPs and bomb the EU headquarters or some such silliness.
Also please remember that Europeans are far more conservative on the issue than you worldly Statesiders. I've always enjoyed the frankness of American politics, and the brutality of the press. Much cleaner than the money in a brown paper bag stuff we have in Britain Roll Eyes
In my early days here I got a jolly stiff talking too from Pete for a rather accurate but crass observation about America and certain actions re-a certain Senator. Now what I said was right, and I would stand by it 100% but Pete for a number of good reasons doesn't want politics or religious wobblies being caused around here, so the mods for good or bad have to deal with these.
There have been times I've had to lock a thread when I was in 100% agreement with what someone was saying, but it didn't fit in with SimV. So you have to respect Pete (he is the Guv'nor), and his wishes for the site.
Is this limiting freedom of speech? Perhaps. Personally I view it as not upsetting anyone (barring a certain couple recently). I mentioned politics in a class once and ended up in a couple of metric tonnes of elephant poo over it Roll Eyes Turned out that the political party I was making my err observation about, well the son of one of its prominent MPs was in that class Lips Sealed
So here is my top idea. Lets go flying and supp some beer Grin Grin Grin

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PS. When do you want to have that race?

PPS. I know Oso had a lot of good French jokes, I sent him a load Grin Some of his had me rolling on the floor. But I still have friends in France.
 

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Reply #24 - Sep 19th, 2003 at 1:59pm

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Mark-we can race as soon as I figure out how to repaint my purdy (and fast, ta to you) Mustang.  It's such a good paint on there, that I can't figure out how to repaint it in the colors I wish to have.  haha

Second, why is it that jokes about other nationalities are okay, but serious discussion is bad?  If anything, I'd think it were the other way around.

I do respect Pete for his rules, and I will say that I truly believe his intentions to be pure.

But I've always felt that people are placing ENTIRELY too much responsibility on others for their actions, and this would be another example.

99% of the times, I do agree with the mods.  But there is still that 1% that nags me to death. lol

I mean no disrespect by starting this thread, and if anyone with the means to do so believes that I do, then by all means, erase the entire thing.

It was meant as a legitimate look at the people here, to see what THEY think about this very controversial issue.

I'm the least politically correct person you'll probably ever meet.  I will tell you to your face what I think about you (not you, but you know what I mean) and not blink while doing so.

This philosophy has resulted in my being called many things, though I can truthfully say that I've NEVER (and I mean not once) been called a liar. 

Those who oppose me can say what they wish, but not many can say that.
 

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Reply #25 - Sep 19th, 2003 at 2:14pm

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Even the nationalities thing got a little out of hand a while back, when France opposed the little shindig in the Gulf, there were quite a few problems here that seemed to prove the case in point of Petes not wanting certain topics here. That was why talk of the war was banned. We didn't want to end up like certain lesser forums Roll Eyes
A good American friend of mine here, and a French gentleman ended up at loggerheads. And things got a little colourful.
As for Political Correctness! **** it! Call a poor person a poor person not fiscally challenged! Thats my motto, I too am honest, but unfortunately slightly less subtle than an A-Bomb Grin But hey, it keeps my students in line Grin Grin Grin

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Reply #26 - Sep 19th, 2003 at 2:18pm

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Spare time?  What is that?  And yes, I can beat you.  But I thought that it was going to be spitfire v. Mustang?

Oh, and if you want, you can delete this whole thread.  lol  No one got the point anyway.  haha
 

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Reply #27 - Sep 19th, 2003 at 2:21pm

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Nah, lets do it in identical aircraft. Then it'll be down to skill of pilot and amount of beer consumed Grin
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Reply #28 - Sep 19th, 2003 at 2:22pm

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But what's the fun in losing to you?  I wanted to win.  lol
 

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Reply #29 - Sep 19th, 2003 at 2:45pm

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Err yeah right. Like anyone could take me when I'm in my beloved Spit! Roll Eyes

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